Monday, 31 May 2010

Scent Trail - Fragrance Inspiration?


Eau Ressourçante is promoted as a long-lasting woody-floral fragrance which helps to release tension, clear and calm the mind and restore balance. This suggests to me that it has health and theraputic dimensions to it. Perhaps worth a try????

Apparently, François Demachy - Dior perfume creator, was inspired by everyday life in India and added just a touch of chic French style, to the Dior Escale A Pondichery fragrance.

Everything special about Greece was captured by Gullaume Flavigny - Perfumer for the Armani Prive Cèdre Olympe scent.

Lyn Harris - Perfumer produced whats been described as a "nostalgic fragrance with a twist", the perfume, Miller Harris Fleurs de Bois - is Regent's Park, London in a bottle!

Tom Ford's Bois Marocain, is a tribute to Morocco and marketed as an evocative fragrance.

Which made me ponder.... if you were to capture your location in a bottle (like a fragrance) what would be the key elements/smells you'd include in it?

Okay, perhaps a random idea, but I will provide some examples below, to hopefully prompt your thoughts.

Bristol: Waterfront, traffic fumes and burgers...

Ireland: Grass, cattle marts and bacon...

Bath: Olives, flower stands and cosmopolitan visitors...

Weston-super-Mare: fish'n'chips, candyfloss and wet mud...

Oxford: Meadows, river, bicycles and raw sweat generated by runners, rowing, cycling etc

Chester: LUSH products and cobbled streets...

What would be the basis of a location scent near you, I wonder?

I look forward to reading your take on this....

Saturday, 15 May 2010

Wisdom without the wilting... If only!

It all started, when I made a decision to de-clutter a corner in one of my rooms that was stacked high with back issues of magazines: Psychologies, SHE and Red. De-clutter for me means read through, select the odd feature to retain and THROW what's left.

The only way I thought I could clear this, was to put my target of reading one book per week on hold and take two with me each day, which would also help my bus ride to feel shorter. One for my outward journey and the other for my return trip.

Amongst my first 10 publications, I came across a dossier "Ageing and the body", which prompted some consideration and observation of how I was doing.

In my experience (so far!) I recollect my hands being described as becoming "Granny hands" by a youngster. Also, soon after my 50th birthday, I recall (for some reason) looking more closely in the mirror and discovering the odd bristle, which I incidentally plucked immediately and do so repeatedly on any sighting! If that wasn't enough clues, beyond my laughter lines I now have a hint of vertical lines appearing from my lower eyes, age freckles are visible on each hand and there is a little excess on the elbows. The odd bit of cellulite and broken veins are further signs of ageing and will ensure I cover certain places, which may be a good thing! The volar side of my forearms are getting scaley which I believe to be due to
age-old skin dehydration.

Not that any of this alters me really..... as I believe ageing needs to be embraced. At the end of the day, my inner values are what make me individual. I will forever strive to live in the moment, remain active, make an effort to be dynamic, think broadly, be consciously open minded and accepting, as I journey through the next milestone.

Those incidental whims and occasional moods of youth have been replaced with indulgent listening and balanced viewpoints, thanks to my lifes broad ranging experiences, to date.

So tonight, I lift my glass and say, "cheers" to those senior moments!

What is your take on ageing?

Friday, 23 April 2010

See what so many choose not to...

I read an article about boosting your mood today. What follows are some of the steps featured.

Have a word with yourself!
An Irish saying, "You'll never plough a field by turning it over in your mind" How do you think? was the question... the lesson, take time to think about how to solve your problem as opposed to just worrying about it suggested by Dr Lisa Turner of Psycademy.



This made me recall the film "Patch Adams" during which a guy holds up 4 fingers and asks, "How many fingers can you see?" If you simply look at the fingers it demonstrates your focus is on the problem, never seeing the solution. Instead, if you look beyond the fingers, you see eight (double) you see what so many choose not to see - better able to arrive at a solution.

Read a "tearbook" like "Notebook" by Nicholas Sparks. Tears release emotional toxins that build up in your body thus its better to release them in this kind of controlled way according to life coach Carla Miller, of Space To Be.



Next, indulge in a Danish concept... Hygge ['hoo-ga']: a deep sense of place & well-being; a feeling of friendship, warmth, contentment and peace with your immediate surroundings. It's really about embracing the moment you're in.

For me, over the past 3 years I have actively settled with the past (writing for me is proving therapeutic) and engaged in the present, acceptance being a huge help. As for believing in the future, I remain open.

One heading read, "Try a stress busting sniff" ... source a fragrance based on the scent of cut grass as it works directly on the part of the brain that is linked to emotions. Dr Nickolas Lavidis says it makes you feel happier with life.



Perhaps it is time to reach for the lawnmower!

Thursday, 22 April 2010

Silver Surfers' of 2040?

He was all of 70 with age freckles and a jaundiced shade to a weathered tan. His ears long, left lobe emphasised with not one but two medium sized "curtain ring" style pierced ear-rings which prompted me to ponder the question...

What will the younger generation 18 to 25 age group of 2010 be wearing and looking like in terms of accessories/hair styles in 2040?

I couldn't help but to continue with my observation as I'd started. The ear-rings had heightened my curiosity. His silver hair was balding at the top. The back of his neck was mapped with lines whilst there were sagging folds to the front. His beige hoodless anorak was in keeping with his cream-tinged set of dentures, on show as his side silhouette came into view. Bulky PVC trainers, jeans and t-shirt, thick lenses spectacles finished off his desired look.

This was such a contrast to the woman of a similar age that took my attention last week, who was well presented, seemed of a good standing, appearing practical and honest. She had short, straight, silver hair that was layered against her evenly tanned, make-up free face. She did not appear materialistic, wore no jewellery, was very alert to other passengers and readily exchanged a smile. Her grey, soft cardigan could only be cashmere.

After departing my home-bound bus, I soon walked beneath a large magnolia tree with a sprinkling of its petals shed under foot like enlarged confetti. The blades of grass along the verge stood tall towards the blue cloudless sky that was dispersing brilliant sunlight, beckoning me to be quick to down tools.

Friday, 16 April 2010

Carpe diem - Seize the day... What an inspiring thought?


When the bookshop assistant drew my attention to this querky title, “The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society”, my curiosity was alerted and her timing was impeccable, as I also happened to be open to explore new authors and type of read. My spontaneous purchase did not disappoint me, in fact it proved most captivating.

The seed for this book was planted quite by accident. The Author apparently, had travelled to England to research another book and whilst there learned of the German Occupation in Guernsey. On a whim, she flew to Guernsey and was so fascinated by what she saw and heard; many years later using correspondence, tells the story of life there under the German Occupation.

I was never in a hurry to read of war or evacuees, but this tale unfolds in such a moving way that left me quite spellbound.

It is a nostalgic journey which features the sufferings, courage and strength of the inhabitants as well as touching on what enabled them to transcend human barriers.

The description of how the German troops landed can be readily visualised as a result. The departure of thousands of babies and school children evacuated to England is candidly outlined with deep routed feelings alongside an indication of timescale of decisions that had to be made leapt off the pages as I thought how helpful these accounts would be to Year 6 primary school children when sourcing information for their war topic. Improvisation and thrifty solutions that enriched lives also made interesting reading. A romance blossoms within the story with an intriguing twist at the end.

Thought provoking observations and statements are shared such as:

“If one cares deeply about someone or something new, one throws a kind energy out into the world, and fruitfulness is drawn in.”

“Dignity can ruin your life, if you let it.”

“Children have a beautiful light, before the Age of Reason gets at them.”


The Daily Mirror sponsored an essay competition, 500 words on “What Women Fear Most” is an integral part of the story. First Prize went to Juliet’s tale of how she was afraid of chickens far more than she was of men! Yes, there is humour too....

This is the only novel by Mary Ann Shaffer, who due to her decline, asked her niece, Anne Barrows to help her to finish it. Mary Ann once said, “All I wanted was to write a book that someone would like enough to publish.” It transpired to be a huge triumph.

Mary’s charm was described as, “her willingness to be delighted by people, their phrases, their frailties, and their fleeting moments of grandeur.

A dimension to your reading list that MUST be included.

Saturday, 3 April 2010

The Battle of Minds and Wills...

An 1829 Gold sovereign was tossed to decide which crew would have the Surrey or Middlesex side of the river.

Another chapter in the long history of the Oxford v Cambridge boat race, a 4¼ mile course from Putney to Mortlake.

Apparently the 1st race was as a result of Cambridge challenging Oxford to row from the course at which 20,000 spectated in comparison to ¼ million cheering the crews today.

Between the two crews, the youngest member was age 20 and the oldest was age 28.

The exhaustion can only be imagined by those who watch, but how I feel for those rowing in the team that do not cross the finishing line first. Their pain is so visible, whereas the adrenalin of those who win enables that crew to automatically show their elation and relief.

The Royal Marines saw to the psychological confidence of the Cambridge team as they put them through their paces in readiness for this 156th race.

Oxford have chalked up 75 wins, whilst Cambridge can now boast 80. One race was declared a dead heat, although Oxford feel they should claim that one which would make their score stand at 76.

Compelling TV viewing if you have anything to do with either City, University, the sport or have someone dear to you who has it in their blood.

The quickest speed at which this race has been won is recorded at 16 minutes 18 seconds. Today at the finish line was Cambridge 17 minutes 35 seconds and Oxford 17 minutes 39 seconds - only 4 seconds in it!

What was your take on the race?

Thursday, 1 April 2010

Jack Wills "Summer Term" Booklet

I opened a Jack Wills "Summer Term" handbook I'd been given, with its silky, smooth paper and started to read. The introductory text actually read really well as it outlined the melting pot of culture and festivities from which it takes its inspiration. The photography presented a statement of partying, the great outdoors, fun and intimacy.

I think the next step from their range of self-layered vests should be reversible vests. Perhaps you'll get yourself a copy and ponder the concept?

Stripes, floral, brights, frills featured prominently as I turned the pages of merchandise.

The Jack Wills Winchelsea dress took me back to the days when layers of petticoat were a must - what fun! Their Saltwell Shorts and Scotney Boy-Fit Shorts are worth a close look you young girls out there. The Framwellgate Blazer, is an acquired taste but a look that I would go for.

Jack Wills Lilburn Slim leg trousers, Ethelston Beach shorts and Hetton shorts are brilliant items for the male wardrobe.

When I made time to looked up, beyond the glare of sunlight, I saw a "bottled" blond with her long hair fastened to one side, who appeared dreamy as she listened to whatever was playing through her ear-phones. Her pale skin tone made her blackened eye lashes so noticeable, besides the glistening sheen on her lips. As she stood to exit the bus so I could see the full extent of her fashion sense: jeans tucked into beige ankle boots, safari-green cotton jacket with rolled sleeves that revealed a white top. A woolly scarf wound around her neck completed her casual appearance. She slung her large tan bag from her shoulder and strode briskly ahead whilst busily texting on her mobile. I believe she of those people that could throw on anything and look good.

My eyes then went to the seat adjacent to mine where a lady sat, that I regularly see reading for the duration of her bus-ride. Only today, having aborted her read and devoured an entire pot of dip and mini pitta-breads, she wrote copiously onto lined A4 paper. Almost out of character, she had a nostril piercing plus ears that had been subject to triple piercings. She had a very neat bun securely stabbed in place with a long decorative hat-pin. Completely detached from her surroundings she was transfixed to the task-in-hand.

I returned to my more casual read and concluded that Jack Wills "Summer Term" range did have some items that represented good value, irrespective of the stigma that still exists that they attract only customers with a disposable income.

I started my day well... and by mid morning our team were exchanging, not secret Santa presents, but Easter Bunny gifts - the day got even better!