What is it about boys in their late teens, that are so obviously attracted to a girl, experiencing that buzz at the very sight or mention of her, yet refuse to be tempted to send, albeit an anonymous, Valentines card?
It is such an ideal opportunity for harmless flirtation, at the very least.
Have the days disappeared, when it was simple fun to cut out letters or phrases from newspapers/magazines, to convey a message of interest on Valentine's Day?
That serge of adrenaline, arousal of the inner Spring, surely can only be good for you?
Run with youth, I say. These years of innocent bliss should be explored, a bit like walking before you can run!
When you have made a commitment to someone, Valentine's Day is a good time to exchange feelings, to acknowledge a chosen and positive relationship.
After marriage or living with a long-term partner, I believe Valentine's Day provides a chance to rekindle dimensions of romance, you could say some way towards a relationship "health-check". It's an occasion to show how much you know and consider the other. The value of the gift is not how big it is, it's the depth from which it was arrived. To source something spoken about many moons ago or a token that means alot to the other, can often be small in size, but huge in thought & gesture.
With family around, it is a positive move to mark Valentine's Day - demonstrate the wanting to make time for spontaneity and passion, "us" time, maintaining a life balance.
With effort, comes reward. What you want to do in life, you ultimately make time for. Do the same in a close relationship and innate contentment develops.
I once read,'Smile with your face, smile with your mind, then good energy comes to you'. Try it....
Keep romance, surprise and consideration between you and yours!
What has been your experience?
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