When my children were young, on Mothering Sunday they would be given daffodils at the end of Sunday School, to give to me. They would either make a card, create and illustrate a verse/poem or draw/paint a picture to give to me under the supervision of a school teacher.
As children grow older so they loose the Primary School setting that devotes time and actively encourages children, to think about their Mums and to celebrate Mother's Day.
Today, now teenager's, independently each member of my family has chosen to join forces to buy a card and gift between them and to write their individual messages inside their greeting to endorse their love and gratitude.
For me, to know they wish to be in my company and make time to do so, is the icing on the cake! When it happens, its heart-warming and generates a peace of mind.
When their friends visit, I am interested in what they say and make a conscious effort to listen attentively. Each time I receive positive responses from their friends, it serves as a reminder to make time for my children, as in doing so, they will want to make time for me and are more likely to talk with me and share their news.
My Mum loved violets and whilst hard to find, or it felt a long time waiting for them to be in season, it was very satisfying sourcing some to give to her, whether it was Mother's Day or not.
There is nothing quite like the love of your Mum. Unfortunately, it takes some people until they have a family of their own, to start to open their eyes and hearts to the many things Mums' do and to truly value their unstinting love and support.
If you are a Mum... Happy Mother's Day.
If you are a son or daughter... make time for your Mum.
Remember, "As you sow, so shall you reap"!
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